Why eloping might be the best decision you’ll ever make (besides choosing each other)
When it comes to saying “I do,” couples today are redefining what a wedding day can look like. For many, eloping has become the perfect way to create a deeply personal, stress-free, and unforgettable celebration of love. Whether it’s exchanging vows on a windswept cliff, in a serene forest, or at the edge of an tropical beach, elopements offer a unique opportunity to focus entirely on your connection and shared adventure. If you’re considering skipping the big wedding and opting for something more intimate, here are six key reasons why eloping might be the perfect choice for you.
Intimacy and privacy
Eloping allows couples to focus solely on each other, creating an intimate and personal experience without the distractions of a large wedding. It avoids the stress of traditional wedding planning, enabling couples to choose meaningful locations and prioritize their vows and commitment. The absence of a large audience fosters authentic emotional exchanges, and the spontaneity of eloping allows for a tailored experience reflecting their relationship. Ultimately, it transforms the wedding into a unique celebration of love and togetherness.
Freedom to make decisions that will make the two of you happy
An elopement is about creating an experience that feels genuinely you. You don't have to worry about guest list issues, unwanted opinions, traditions, or financial concerns if those things cause you stress. You can decide which parts of a wedding day are meaningful for your celebration, invest your budget in what you value, and save money on what's not important to you. The best part is that there are no rules or templates for elopements. The day is whatever you want it to be and what best reflects you and your relationship.
You can choose your dream destination
Many individuals see elopement as a chance to visit places and engage in activities they've always dreamed of experiencing. If there's a destination they've previously visited and loved, it can be a meaningful place to return to for their wedding day. Instead of spending on a large wedding, consider investing in an unforgettable experience for you and your fiancé(e). This day will be a significant part of your shared story, and selecting a destination that excites you will ensure it's a story you'll cherish forever.
My favorite exercise with people is to close your eyes, envision the most beautiful setting imaginable, think about how you want to feel that day, and let that inspire your choice of wedding location. Choose a place that excites you. If you love food, culture, and architecture, your trip might include a historic city. If you seek peace and quiet, a secluded beach or mountain overlook will perfectly fit your vision. The key is to find an elopement guide or planner who can translate your vision and present you with destination options. Sometimes, you may not even know where your dream location exists!
Do more than get married
Now that you're planning an elopement, the day is yours to fill with adventure and joy! Imagine crafting a day full of activities you've always dreamed of experiencing together or ones you already cherish. How about an exhilarating helicopter ride to a glacier, the thrill of rock climbing, or the wonder of a whale watching tour? Or perhaps you'd prefer the simple pleasures of sharing a cozy picnic or gazing at the stars hand in hand. The possibilities are endless, and your wedding day can be as unique and exciting as your love story!
Stress less
Countless couples planning big weddings meet with me before their big day and express their wish to have simply eloped. Many decisions lead to immense, yet completely avoidable stress. Financial decisions, wedding party drama, who can sit by who, who's going to cause a scene with an open bar, the wedding day timeline, parents intervening and insisting on their way. So rather than being excited for a beautiful and fun day filled with love, you're having nightmares about things coming together correctly and how other people feel about your wedding.
And it may sound like I don't enjoy photographing big weddings - believe me, I very much do. But having seen brides throwing up from stress on their wedding day and relationships ruined because of wedding drama, I sympathize a lot with couples who want to avoid that altogether and plan a wedding day where they can focus on nothing but the person they're marrying.
Amazing photos to tell the story of your day
I would be remiss if I didn't mention how stunning your wedding gallery will be! This isn't just due to your choice of a location with a breathtaking, distinctive backdrop that you'll dream of revisiting together, but also because your photos will capture the genuine happiness of your wedding day. They will narrate the story of your unique journey together, encompassing every messy, romantic, emotional, and joyful moment you experience. With an adventure as significant as yours, you'll want an exceptional photo experience to accompany it. So that being said...
- Start Planning Your Wedding Adventure with Wild North Weddings -
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If you're considering an elopement and unsure of where you should start, let's talk about your thoughts and ideas! I help guide couples through the planning process and photograph the day for them. I can even officiate in the U.S.!
Hi! I’m Carly, a U.S.-based destination elopement and wedding photographer passionate about capturing love stories in the most breathtaking locations. Whether you’re dreaming of exchanging vows on a mountaintop, by the ocean, or in a hidden forest, I’m here to guide you through the entire elopement planning process. From helping you craft your perfect day to photographing every meaningful moment, I’ll be by your side to ensure your adventure is unforgettable. Ready to bring your vision to life? Let’s connect and make it happen! Visit wildnorthweddings.com to start planning your dream elopement.
Wedding & elopement photographer documenting weddings across the United States including New England, Pennsylvania, West Virginia, New York, Utah, Arizona, Colorado, Washington and Hawaii
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